Highest level of management autonomy for employees, voluntary, spontaneous - Central Plains

 Management of the highest realm: the staff, Change own experience. . you look now, society is not to say, our business there, no dedication, for others less, to own more; treatment increased, the staff lazy; work less, hand and leading to treatment, about the conditions more. What Moral Degeneration! we do business do not know how to control the. , and people become more complicated. institutional vary greatly, before a planned economy, the state gave arranged, Pan vain have to worry about that worry is useless. now a market economy, and man for himself and God for everyone. do not worry, nobody you live or die. So now people do not speak dedication, about treatment; no man, only to have; do not speak the task, say the conditions are right to some extent, without which no way to survive. However, I think, or to the Cultural Revolution to the mix. take the body of the Chinese people, kind, honest, hardworking, have stirred no enthusiasm, and at least temporarily out of sight. traditional virtues disappeared, and just in time for reform and opening up the outside The world is very exciting, and everybody naked pursuit of private interests, with little regard for corporate, social, and national interests. out of corruption, smuggling, we can not say. we do business management, more and more difficult, the staff the demand for more and more complex, more Mo Buzhun, what is talked about listening to a lot of complaining about the boss, also very good, single-minded professional to do their own technical work or professional managers, not how strenuous can mobilize their enthusiasm. We are here not so quick to jump ship to the staff's basic capabilities, but also his job for the most basic conditions. aside professional competence do not speak, look elsewhere. What kind of person, in order for our use, is the professional talents? boss of professional talent How should the management in place then what? how to mobilize the enthusiasm of the staff it? presented here on the highest professional level of personnel management. Three-Self, independent, voluntary, spontaneous. The first self is the wealth, age, head of creative thinking is the most valuable asset, so the highest level of management would like Microsoft as a large number of , that is, if the employee an autonomous person. 1, recruitment of employees of independent thinking: ever heard of an instructor training course in Taiwan, he proposed a very novel point of view, said: really use their brain? how many people to think the problem is? few! According to my observation, only 5% of the people is the genuine head, 5% is thought he used his head, and a 5% because work needs, or had to use his head to force others, and the other 85% are never used head. soul of the people , as the monk's practice to resist the external sound, color, like so many will do anything: health care products, real estate, computer software and so on. now is because the rapid rise of re-defined the It is a small number of successful community. This enterprise depends on what support? must rely on a number of support staff to think independently. enterprises should pay attention to recruitment, the other party is not ideas. as far as possible such a person recruited to the enterprise in the past. The more senior the position, this is more important. such people have a clear direction in life, there is a clear purpose. as long as the purpose of his position and adapt to this, he will work hard to achieve their own purposes, and thus make a contribution. Do not use those who do not know what to do next, especially at the senior level, it is taboo, just listen to is of no use to think independently to create value for the enterprise. to think from another perspective, only employees of such enterprises to use, only a win-win business and employees. 2, career planning: recruitment is only one way to find good employees can not be met. The key is to corporate employees develop into such a person, many companies are talking about prospects, and guide employees to put their own development and the development of enterprises together. employees in the enterprise development to get a reasonable income and growth opportunities, corporate dedication of the staff have made huge returns. another angle, for an I has its own planning staff, the company is only just a platform, his development and the development of the company two curves intersect, but 2-3 years, so, you help him to a career useless, the other would you do not agree. If you want to retain such employees, the company should take a platform rather than just let him adapt to the existing platform. The second is from the before talking about allow employees to do things voluntarily. For independent workers, there must be reasonable and appropriate incentives for the authorization, only then can the other voluntary. 1, how to motivate: There is a story told like this: Once there was three people, Zhang, Wang, Lao Li, have nothing else. to talk about a topic, how to get the cat to eat pepper. Zhang said: This way you are too cruel, cats are unwilling, and will hate you. I do want the cat hungry for three days, put pepper on the meat, the cat will eat. not good enough, is also a little cruel, not voluntary cat food, because hunger before eating, after will be you. My approach is to allow others to plug in the cat's ass chili inside, just the beginning of the cat are not aware of, Pepper slowly feel the stimulation, the cat his pain to his mouth to bite back, they will eat a hot pepper. this time the cat was happy, because the chili to relieve his pain. , let the cat eat the chili, different people in different ways, but only hear his approach, the cat is voluntary, the lifting of their pain, have been happy. Similarly, to make people do things voluntarily, but also let him to relieve pain, to joy, with the marketing, the words above: to meet customer needs. of course not be able to hear his specific approach to learning. but to discover the real needs of employees, employee what is the most painful, is not getting recognition of the leadership? or material incentives is not enough? or learning opportunities is not enough? just to help people solve the most painful problem, the staff will act voluntarily. So the incentive is voluntary sufficient as a prerequisite. For people to have different stages of development different incentives. can be a material incentive can also be inspired by the spirit, to maintain a balance between the two. 2, the appropriate authority: Another prerequisite is to do things, when employees have sufficient permissions. Everyone likes decide something, when others are right, the staff can not mobilize sufficient resources for their own use, so that it will rely on the work of supervisors, employees will continue to strengthen themselves as a . Now enterprises are faced with dramatic changes in the market, companies use work teams to solve problems rather than linear function of the way. This team is a small group with appropriate rights, has been fully authorized. a word: no incentives without authorization is not voluntary. The third is from the but had to do it. to give him instructions, to the less, he was done, said: Who is responsible? ; to too many instructions, can be done, said: vent ways for different people, different things, different management approach. Sometimes the staff is the best way to deal with, the saying goes: stubborn donkey, Shun Mao stroke. The basic starting point is: to fully respect their staff in all aspects of them all as an expert. Only employees are respected, the following will be in the independent and voluntary work spontaneously, will carry forward the spirit of ownership. managers to do: something, do certain things. There when the need to over, but know too much go wrong, by several coaches are responsible for, and some specialized training goalkeeper coach, and some specialized training forwards coach, and some specialized training guard coaches. When the team wants to compete when the coach selected by the right people in the various groups to participate in the competition, Coach is no way this time instead of the players out of competition. If the players fail this time, the coach should be blamed. If in the course of the game, the player's performance failures, the primary responsibility in the coach and players. summarize that the players success or failure of the time in the training and selection, the primary responsibility for training the coaches; in the game, the main responsibility for the coach. the enterprise managers to function as a coach, to guide staff development, and continuously through a variety of training, to to staff development. unless a last resort, not to intervene staff, he will solve the problem. In the Three-Self, the self is the foundation, is to ensure voluntary, self is the goal. every employee to do things spontaneously, is the highest corporate governance state, the full realization of human resources ; with his head to be in the system, culture, and in all directions to proceed to elect people, educating people, employment, and ultimately to achieve the highest level of management: independent, voluntary and spontaneous.

Hunters, dogs and rabbits in the story (to)

 A dog to a rabbit out of the nest, has been after him, chasing a long time still not caught. Shepherd saw this scene, the two of you laugh at dogs that l runs between the small, but much faster. l hound replied: l you do not know the two of us in the running is totally different! I just order a meal and run, he was running for their lives and ah! l
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words heard by hunters, hunters would like: dogs are right ah, I want to get more of the game, need to find a positive solution. As a result, hunters and bought a few dogs, who can be caught in hunting rabbits to get a few bones, can not catch no food to eat. This move really useful for dogs who have to work hard chasing rabbits, because no one wants to see other people have bones to eat, not eating their own. For this After some time, the problem arose. big rabbit is very difficult to catch, good to catch a small rabbit. But the rewards are big rabbit caught and caught a small rabbit bones are similar to observed dogs are good at this trick, special catch a small rabbit. slowly, we have found this trick. hunter hounds said: Recently you catch the rabbits getting smaller, why? hounds say: not much difference anyway, why charge so much Jin's what the big catch?
power.
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hunters think, decided not to share with whether the number of bones linked rabbit caught, but over a period of time with each of the statistical a total weight of dogs caught the rabbit. by weight to evaluate the dogs, the treatment decision for some time. So the number of dogs have caught the rabbit and the weight increased. hunters very happy. but after a period of time, hunters found dogs the number of rabbits they catch one less, and the more experienced dogs, hunting rabbits decline in the number of the more interest. So they ask the dog hunters. dogs that l the best time we dedicated to you, master, But we will grow old over time, when we catch a rabbit when you eat it will give us the bones? l

Hunter made four decisions of reward on merit. Analysis and summary of All dogs caught the rabbit number and weight, provides that if a rabbit caught more than a certain number, even catching a rabbit, every meal can get a certain number of bones. dogs are very happy, we are all striving to hunters to reach the required number. After some time, finally has some hound hunters reached the required number. At this time, including a hunting dog, said: We are so hard, only got a few bones, and we catch the game far more than this a few bones. Why can not we give their hunting rabbits? l Thus, some dogs left the hunters, their hunting rabbits to the combination of bone and flesh.
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dog is aware of the loss of Hunter and the loss of hunting dogs who like dogs and their dogs generally grab the rabbit. the situation getting worse, hunters forced to lure a stray dog, stray dogs asked him in the end stronger than the dogs in there. dingo said: the bones, spits out the flesh ah! share of total rabbit meat hunter m. In this way, dogs have to work together with the hunters, the dogs are forced to suffer a great deal, return to dog teams have strong demand.
story has continued.
- only permanent interests , no permanent friends -
the past one day at a time, winter, rabbits fewer hunters harvest even a single day than one day. and those who service the old dogs have a long time too old to catch rabbits, but still enjoying the carefree self-righteousness that they deserve a large portion of food. Then one day the hunter can no longer bear them out the door, because hunters need more able-bodied dog .....< br> - ---- Birth of MicroBone Co.
who was swept out of the old dogs had a lot of money in compensation, so they set up MicroBone company. the way they used to recruit Franchise dogs, wild dogs are taught to hunt rabbits techniques, they extract rabbit hunting was part of a management fee. When almost all the compensation for advertising, they finally have enough dogs to join us. the company began to make a profit. A year later, they bought a hunter possessions ...
------ Development of MicroBone Co
MicroBone company promised to join the dogs to get the company n the shares. This is too tempting. The self that is underappreciated in the wild dogs were all surprised to find Concert: finally did the company's owner, and no longer dictated to by hunters endure unpleasant, no longer enough to catch rabbits and working so hard, do not have to helplessly beg for more hunters to the two bones of the play with too delicate and charming. All of these dogs, this is more than good enough to eat two bones. So dogs are a family and I joined the MicroBone, studied under some of the young hunters hunting in the mouth also began to stir, many think he is wise or even practical stupid hunters also want to join. many of the same type as the springing up of companies was established, BoneEase, Bone.com, ChinaBone .... a time, the forest hilarious. (to be continued ..)
- F4
hunter with the birth of the money onto the sale of the company walked the streets of the old dogs, the last lot of hard negotiating with the MicroBone when the unexpected success the old dogs Hunter agreed to sell the company to a hunter MicroBone. old dogs are no longer run the company and instead began to write the rotation, hound dog as a management the well-known stars F4. collection of copyright fees, no risk, more profitable.

University enrollment wrong with it

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expanding enrollment text / Min Tang
Since 1999 the university enrollment has opened a new chapter in the history of Chinese higher education. In a short period of 2056, the expansion of university enrollment by nearly 3 times that have long plagued the young kids to college difficult problem has been greatly eased. However, there is a recent public opinion in society that the enrollment expansion wrong, along with the emergence of large scale enrollment expansion Some issues: such as poor school attendance difficult, difficult for graduates to find jobs, declining quality of education, etc. all due to market-oriented reforms. more some of the points in order to negate the whole education reform. We believe that indeed there are many worthy Enrollment Improvement place. However, the current higher education in China, the problems occur, not enrollment in the wrong direction, nor is it a combination of education reform and the market wrong, but rather the shortcomings of the past in the planning system has not completely eliminated, transformation of government functions not in place, caused by the reform is still not perfect. Education is not the market, but not combined with the market, not the education services for the market economy, certainly no way out. for enrollment in the emergence of some negative issues, can not be partial Almost all, especially for some specious arguments can not interfere with our reforms. We should unswervingly promote reform of education, only in the continuous reform of education in China have a way out.
one. If there is no enrollment
Since the enrollment year, our annual general college enrollment from the college in 1999 to 160 million to 447 million in 2004. In the number of students increased to 1334 from 413 million people. such a large scale expansion of enrollment, to tens of millions of young students into the Higher School, and began life a new leap. According to the United Nations, our proportion of school-age youth for higher education from 1991 to 2003 increased 3% to 13%, from the world ranked 131, up to 114. Expansion of the large social impact in China, not be underestimated. In the cities, college-age youth have not been easy. I often go to poor areas in recent years, access to many very remote villages to see With the first in the history of a college student. University enrollment greatly enhance the quality of the nation, so our level of education, human capital levels are a big step on its far-reaching impact in the next ten to twenty years will be more clearly apparent.
large enrollment in the same time, colleges and universities themselves has been the rapid development of several universities from 1999 to 1071, increased to 1,731 in 2004. university teachers has increased by 1 fold. high school , while also expanding graduate education, high school students in school also doubled, from 1999 to 1049.7 million to 2220.4 million in 2004; graduate students have expanded by 2.5 times. can be said that the College Expansion into China for the future higher level of international competition for independent innovation and development laid a solid foundation of talent and knowledge.
for a way of thinking, if there is no enrollment, so what is the situation now? First in the current half of college students do not enter more than the University, had already entered the ranks of employment or unemployment. not because of high school enrollment, most of them can not get to high school. In other words, schools in the tens of millions of young people four to advance seven years to enter the labor market. junior high school qualifications and quality, with migrant workers so that they can only compete for jobs or laid-off workers. In the past five years the number of re-employment of laid-off workers up to 1800 people. with these early high school compared to young people, laid-off workers at a disadvantage in the competition, so if there is no enrollment, is likely to have about half of the current re-employment of the laid-off workers will be out of these young people go.
If there is no enrollment, which may have been today reality! not enrollment of unemployment is more serious than it is now; our weaker international competitiveness; China's higher education there is no performance today.
II. in the end the number of poor students not go to university
Most of the criticism of the university enrollment increased tuition fees for poor students has led to the phenomenon of school hard. Admittedly, tuition increase, on the part of poor households to form a lot of pressure. does not rule out the individual can not afford college tuition for not go to school example. However, if this is only a few cases, it should be handled by one example. You can not generalize, some special cases as a common phenomenon, and even asserts that They can not afford college no longer read, years, according to the Ministry of Education requires all freshmen when they reported to be open to students from poor families the green channel, so that all new students from poor families first apply for admission procedures, and then a different approach under the circumstances to be funded. poor college students denied poor students admission may be made to the Ministry of Education a complaint. online reports of individual students from poor families to give up school because of tuition opportunities, the vast majority are not public universities.
fair, since enrollment, the State, institutions of higher learning and the whole community effort to solve the problem of poor students. After some years of efforts, China has basically established the about 5% of households particularly difficult monthly subsidy of 150 yuan per student, a total benefit of 67 million poor students. The Ministry of Education also provides college tuition must be used to finance 10% of students from poor families. Meanwhile, the departments concerned to help reform the state School loans implementation mechanism, in principle, according to in-school 20% of the total number of paid student loans. With the establishment of individual credit system, not on time but also a timely recourse loans, college loans debts of the problem should be greatly eased. This in turn can greatly improve the commercial banks and policy banks to issue student loan initiative. I believe in a range of student loans within two years will continue to expand.
III. address the possibility of poor students go to school way out
difficult for poor students problems, to take measures to give a special address. Even if the tuition down to about 3,000 yuan before enrollment levels, the difficulties they have to pay. The fundamental way is to jump out of the traditional idea of reform, University student a reasonable way of subsidies, so that poor families can not afford, subsidies for wealthy families to enjoy the strange phenomenon of free riding. to take on students of different family income levels to give different subsidies, together with the expansion of student loans, poor students go to school in China difficult problem should be solved in general.
non-university education compulsory education, more suited to who benefited and who pay a fee principle. Even the enrollment rate of school-age youth up to 50% -70% of the Western countries in recent years students pay tuition fees also increase the proportion of benefit. In recent decades, as people understand the depth of the economic problems, many traditional financial support from the public goods are also eliminated subsidies, while the use of costs higher education is more a matter of course few people enjoy the same principle should also be used.
, of course, in real life, the state each year was allocated a huge amount of financial investment to go to university education. According to statistics, average students per capita cost of 14,000 yuan per year. And now for the 5000-6000 college tuition dollars per capita. That fact directly or indirectly, the state financial year college students to provide each element of student grants 8000-9000. This kinds of student grants are not fall from the sky, is the 28 families came to pay tax. For more than a college student grants grants for 50 students. Shangqie year compulsory education in rural areas in the current circumstances, should be charged, on the non-compulsory education University should charge a fee of course.
way we are paid from the university under the planned economy, kinds of payment of student grants extremely fair and reasonable manner. state funds not fall from the sky, or that this subsidy per student 8000-9000 yuan, is actually made up of 28 families out of tax to pay. with This taxes on lower income families can not afford school fees to give some subsidies, but also time being available economic theory to explain the transfer payments, excusable. This financial allocation to poverty reduction by the same reason. However, from 27 families pay taxes to subsidize a young wealthy families ability to pay for college, not a very rational.
can not be counted as However, if the child has a few months old, ten years old, so the distribution is not very fair.
a current popular view of society is overweight college tuition, more than the average family to pay levels, tuition fees should be lower. We agree that, even before the enrollment fee of 3,000 yuan a year, for most part of rural families and families of urban subsistence allowances, but also a very heavy burden. But the undeniable fact is that for the other part of the family, this is the affordable tuition fees. Every year big money on school choice, tuition, and also no shortage of studying at their own expense. For example, in China the average disposable income of urban residents was 10,000 yuan, disposable income of a family of three man-years to 30,000 yuan, according to 20% of the annual income to count, 5,000 yuan in tuition fees is not particularly unreasonable. even in the farmers have higher income. ignores the ability of people to pay the difference. there can not afford the poor the rich the strange phenomenon of free riding subsidized.
Therefore, as with any supplement or the release of pro-poor models as reasonable and effective issuance of student grants approach should be on families with different income levels different levels of student grants. very poor families should be free of tuition fees of university students; more difficult to be part of the fee remission; and fewer families can afford to accept subsidies.
, of course, This grant program in practice can be improved according to specific circumstances. For example, we can implement the fee remission based, not being asked to raise tuition fees for wealthy families. provides a number of years, additional state funding for universities, university revenue , college savings, a large percentage of the tuition fees for relief; to poor students in the state loan interest subsidies for poor students directly for fee remission; the tax department of the community to be donated to poor students free tuition; of fireworks grams of 5 to 10 times the tax subsidy for poor students, etc..
At the same time, we can put the function of student loans and expand the scope of the student loan repayment period was extended to 10-15 years the student loans from the current subsidies for poor students features into open to all students, even for well-off families are also non-discriminatory student loans. Thus, even in the state of university finances is temporarily unable to put the case more , but also largely solve the difficult problem of poor enrollment. while also reducing the reality of the other students to pay income families pressure.
four, the University received a fee is to educate industry do?
the income of college students a fee equivalent to the education industry is a misunderstanding. I have always been opposed to the industrialization of education mentioned this concept, because it confuses different levels of education. As many scholars have pointed out, what is the education industry itself is a very clear Concept. there is no basic education in any country is a functioning market-oriented industry, the contrary is provided by the state finance public goods. higher education can not be completely operational by the market.
a certain amount of tuition fees on college students does not mean is the education industry. In one sense, this is the fairness performance. of non-university education compulsory education, to receive formal university education, after all, a few people. Even today, after enrollment, with an average of 28 college students have a family. modern educational theory, not yet universal higher education for developing countries, higher education closer to the nature of general merchandise, who is more suited to benefit pays principle. national finance should support education, but not all the education and educated population, is the lack of a long-standing problem, the government also increasing investment in education. However, investment in financial education should reflect the principle of fairness. In our country, fair enough financial investment in education is reflected in the too little investment in rural education . low-income farmers to pay most of the cost of education. to solve the problem of investment in education is not fair, we should increase investment in rural education.
unfair investment in education is also reflected in our re-education funding higher education, light the tendency of basic education. fiscal spending, just as a family expense, there is a question of priorities. Even within education, the state's investment should have a priority order, first of all should ensure compulsory education, and then be put into higher education , vocational education, pre-school education and so on, rather than the contrary, the bulk of on higher education. China's GDP, the ratio of expenditure on education, already well below the international average. And in the limited allocation of funding for education, for higher the funding of education the proportion of total education spending and far higher than the world average. In the past few years, the state universities were added to the input of hundreds of billions.
At this stage, the Government has money to be first investment in rural education, investment in basic education. the first full-year compulsory education in rural areas to make free, to reduce unnecessary burden on farmers. Meanwhile, in rural primary and middle school teaching aids investment, investment in teacher training in rural areas. Similarly, If there is no certain scale in rural areas, high school, college, children of the farmer the chance of inequality. expanding rural high school, vocational education for farmers to expand and improve their teaching quality. If it is possible, but also the city free and compulsory education gradually introduced. of which require substantial investment. These are related to all farmers, all the people of the event. to the fairness of the education, these issues must be resolved first.
Therefore, for a long period of time, public finance in higher education input, can not and should have rapid growth. From this point, the settlement funds from the university reduce costs, reduce waste and make efforts for social services, services for enterprises and work hard , in the mobilization of community contributions and work hard. university problems in these areas is not caused by education reform, it is the combination of higher education and the market is not caused by tight.
five. Chinese students too much?
Some university graduates find work with the current difficult to prove that there is no need to increase enrollment. on the excess or shortage of higher education in China is also on the enrollment criteria for judging the merits and demerits of one. no comparison there is no identification. Let us make some international comparison. from the age of UNESCO with the caliber of the indicators of youth enrollment rate in 2002, China's higher education enrollment rate is 13%, South Korea 71.69%, 29.45% Philippines, Thailand 31.92%. of higher education is just crossed the internationally recognized threshold of mass higher education. If the United States, Europe and other developed countries than bad, but even half the rate of economic growth and per capita GDP of our country and our comparable Philippines, Thailand can support such a high proportion of college students, why can not accommodate our current economic employment of college graduates do?
from a macro point of view, Graduates in the Job is the economic restructuring process of the change in the employment structure of the temporary difficulties, in part because not enough students and not the concept of employment adjustment could well seize the opportunity, there are higher education reform lags behind economic development. But this does not mean that students of excess, surplus personnel. China market more fully to accommodate the students. not because they are temporary difficult to give up the big education appropriate development strategies.
Employment and Industrial Change, economic development has a direct relationship between the cycle and so on. At present, employment is difficult not only students, the whole society there is the difficult problem of employment. nearly 10 years, increasing pressure on employment in China, but in the short term can not be fundamentally resolved. From 1995 to 2005, state-owned enterprises and collective enterprises in the reduction of more than 6000 million jobs. From the perspective of the reform Look, this is a step forward. in the past seems very few people unemployed on the surface that everyone has work, but the actual five people to do two things, not only low wages, five people still fighting with each other.'s economic development into efficient, two posts only two people to eat. However, from the employment point of view, the problems accumulated over decades of concentrated solution in a few years, there will be a temporary imbalance in the labor market. In addition, our policy-driven, and not to employment put priority on the real issues. too many local governments to pursue economic growth, increased priority to the development strategy. from the financial, fiscal and policy are to high-tech, big business tilt. recent increase in number of enterprises and economic projects employment is often not high carrying capacity. Over the past decade of economic growth for each percentage point of non-agricultural jobs created was only one-third of the 80's. the formation of a .
cause students content and teaching methods obsolete, trained many of the qualities and abilities of students meeting market needs. However, bad things can change a good thing, perhaps precisely because of the difficult employment students, will further promote people to appeal to a number of years have not been able to promote some of the Reform of higher education. In the past graduates always , the school basically do not care about market demand. is now a market economy, too close to the students, people will no longer buy your services, professional future will be canceled. This prompted us to college to better integration with the market. the face of a market economy, many companies the last ten years have also experienced the ; the policy, making the basic job market, the market mechanism has begun to play its role. accustomed to the employment under the planned economy system concept, many students in the market mechanism on the hand, the job market with the ; elite education than the number of graduates does not seem to even short of adequate. for the employment of college graduates overall case, is entered into a , must be part of the college graduates engaged in popular education adapted to low-level work. This is also the social development and progress. in higher education has been popular countries, college graduates are often doing the work in the most basic . Thus the employment of college graduates to be adjusted outlook and employment expectations, and establish popular on employment. The correct self-understanding, understanding social job requirements, identify their own social position of employment.
Finally, we are now widely reported in the so-called one-time employment rate whether the science is also worth exploring. definition is not clear, scientific data everywhere, and then after the media hype, the panic can also cause people to mislead students, misleading parents, but also mislead, it will affect the current situation we do the correct judgments. time employment rate refers to the students signing rate in July. and assign different rigid planned economy, market economy, find an ideal job will take some time, in just a few months or even six months Can not find work is also normal. In addition, in our statistics, flexible employment, which did not sign the contract, in small and micro enterprises are often no employment of university students are in the data. In fact, such employment statistics or are we under the planned economy over the past allocation of a continuation of employment patterns. We should take a common international approach to a more market-oriented statistical methods.
VI. Reform the reform of the improvement or improving
by the This can be seen, the current higher education in China, the problems occur, not enrollment in the wrong direction, nor is it a combination of education reform and the market wrong, but rather the planning system in the past has not completely eliminate the drawbacks of the Government No functional changes in place, caused by the reform is still not perfect.
present society there is a view that the reform is not perfect, if not changed. We do not agree with this view. China's reform process is several decades to gradual reform. reform itself is a very complex process, people's understanding of reform there is a deepening process. can not put everything in the early stages of reform, designed to be so perfect. If you wait until everything is well designed, and the legal system are sound, and the enforcement mechanisms and personnel training, well, come to reform, then this piece of land in China, the reform will never not start.
get enrollment problems, for example, if the students were able to meet the large-scale student loans, the difficult problem of poor students go to school may be able to significantly slow down. In fact, our enrollment in the proposed program, the implementation of student student loan is one of the most important recommendations. the State Council, Ministry of Education and other departments also had very detailed The student loan program to motivate students and the pilot. However, due to the banking reform is not in place, my personal information systems were not established, the concept of people's credit is also more vague. spent on student loans, the recovery of bad debts , but also because our laws do not improve, the court costs are too high and difficult to enforce implementation. Therefore, no large-scale commercial banks to carry out the enthusiasm of student loans. Even to this day, student loans are still unsatisfactory. But these are operating policy is not in place, is related to policy implementation process ineffective due. to wait for banks reform, well, the law is perfect, and credit concepts are built up before going to enrollment, then we may have to wait until one of these years went. reforms should be complete, but it does not mean that everything is not supporting the reform is not good.
sense, if not some breakthrough in the reform of such enrollment, we may not know regime serious lack of good faith, is seriously lagging behind banking reform, policy poor implementation and the creation of high growth and high employment, and so is not the economy and society major issues. These should be further reform should not be allowed enrollment in these institutions for the crime problem, but can not deny enrollment to delay on these issues in-depth reform. seize the key issues in the reform bold change, the emergence of new problems to be resolved in a timely manner, continue to pros and cons, can not be perfect. seize the reform of some of the problems, focusing on one point, excluding the other, in order to negate the entire reform, this attitude is not desirable. We can not allow some specious arguments, some without compare figures, plus some media speculation of some network, interfere with our reforms.
international competition in the twenty-first century is fundamentally talent competition. The current reality is far behind China's education level of economic development, but can not be said to be moderately ahead. even from a quantitative point of view, China's percentage of college-age youth is far lower than in the same development level, even below our level of development of developing countries. from the quality point of view Our education is not keep up with market needs. a country than other countries in order to develop faster, to be in education, especially higher education on the appropriate development. Expansion of the far-reaching economic effects, and will certainly emerge in the future . At present the problems in enrollment is only temporary difficulties in transition, the problem can not be short-term strategic decisions as the basis for long-term development, not because of temporary difficulties, the shortcomings of some of the work in question, and give up the appropriate development of higher education a major strategy . We should unswervingly promote education reform in the reform of university education continue to promote the growth of the scale, the only way only way out for China's education.
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National Literacy intellectual class decision (on)
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chair Person: Good afternoon, ladies and gentlemen! welcome to attend the lecture this afternoon. Today my friends so enthusiastically participated in the teacher's lecture Xiao, Xiao teacher seems everyone is very understanding and love, so I do not particularly Xiao teacher introduced a resume. I would like to introduce to you is, I and my wife is very respected teacher Xiao, Xiao our teachers from the bottom of my heart a lot of respect for. He is not only knowledgeable, but also sharp thinking, insightful, more importantly, he has firm conviction, courage and fearless loving heart. In him we see the traditional Chinese I will carry people. In today's widespread confusion and frustration into real situations, Xiao integrity and quality of teachers is even more of this show is of special significance.
my wife is wasted in their own half later, in old age so good to get to know young people are very pleased. This is our back long after many teachers to participate, please speak Xiao reasons. I want to be friends here will agree with me that description.
Today we would like Xiao teacher we are talking about the topic of Like me, I am particularly looking for a drill down to sew. But I am also very grateful to you both on my expectations, though I may never reach it, but I also want to do it as much as possible. to do so shamisen The lecture is the second time I have, in fact I had not dared to have been. But a lot of things like this, you will have for the first time a second, the nerve is out of practice this way.
Today I talk about the topic of more than we used. because the Communist Party intellectuals to corrupt the word, I hardly use it. because of the interpretation of the Communist Party more high school people can call intellectuals, which have trouble, because the word in the West there is a specific connotation and extension. From the perspective of the sociology of knowledge, intellectuals, the concept consists of two things: One is the pursuit of truth; one is the pursuit of justice. This is the least. usually Ziv said the year of Russia Lackey said something: the birth of the concept of intellectuals. There is a saying in the 19th century, in the course of the Dreyfus case, Georges Clemenceau, then in the called ruined. I believe that if not 20 years of normal education, so that the final say as Wang Shuo's ; that is to say for the Well of communism, as article, know that I can not say that mouth what is good for this nation. I cut it, we must take the intellectual class surgery, I've had time read the article, Mr. Lu uncomfortable, this situation persists for a long time. Of course, I also think that he now has some articles on specific individuals within the language of violence, I do not agree, but I think he is the anatomy of this nation until now, in our intellectual class where no one over him. Every time I see his article, as a Chinese I feel very uncomfortable, especially because he had read a few books, and often mistakenly think they are intellectuals, the class, it will be even worse. like Mr. Chen Lemin said, as if my life is the love of knowledge, love reading, then we should have at least a little bit of moral responsibility. then I want to say to me to make a brief introduction to the content.
(I talk about the content) is divided into three parts, total time is half an hour, because I was not very good at eloquence, worried about his story that we all sleep a little later, I embarrassed you embarrassed, so I as brief as that, the rest of the time we could chat would not be so boring.
three elements: first, to divide the functions of what class composition of society; second, about China intellectual level; Third, removal of idolatry is the starting point for intellectual class to walk upright.
talk about the first issue, to divide the functions of the basic components of society. Sometimes I like to play some idea, word games, and today I also propose a new idea. of course, also possible that my ignorance did not see other people have said, also mistakenly thought he invented a something. This often happens, I often mistakenly think they have a new invention, the excited extreme and found a book has been mentioned, but also their've seen before. Mr Qian had talked to a joke, said a farmer to farm the rain suddenly, Jizhongshengzhi, used a stick to clothes hold up to rain, very excited, saying that he invented a thing can shelter from the rain. (farmer) to the Patent Office to register, the results others tell him is called an umbrella, invented long ago. I found myself often do such a thing.
I want to say is that in a society usually some of the items by three components: power, wealth, intellectual. I call it the new separation of powers. the power to maintain order and justice, wealth and ensure normal life sustained, the concept of intellectual maintain the stability of a society and updates. in which a healthy society, these three forces should be checks and balances, especially intellectual class to restrict the power and wealth class. make a example, power and wealth like a person's body, while the intellectual equivalent of a person's soul. If the decay of the intellectual class, then this must be corrupt society, such as contemporary China. various social strata are usually the elite of these three rule , there is a political scientist said before, no matter what era of human development to the ruling elite of society are a group. I think this is basically correct, indeed, in the creation of equality before the personality can not be offset the result of social reality of inequality, we must respect the natural formation of a society level, and if a disaster will destroy the heavy force. Zedong done this kind of thing that year, he came to power after the natural formation of strata in China should completely destroyed, the land reform , the town against, a variety of political and economic movements, the truth is the word: robbery; No, two words: there is murder. that the words can be summed to the nature of the regime of Mao Zedong, is to destroy the existing wealth power elite.
year before I see the United States Hofer's reason, and later found a problem with this sentence, because the world has a drunkard, China, the United States, Britain, Denmark, the highest happiness index is also alcoholic, drunk all over the world are the same ah. I think where people are poor Yes, just not the poor people, but the decision is the elite of the literacy attainment of a nation, this is a national real short board.
I think we can usually see some of the more obvious facts, such as very well-known Jewish phenomenon. Whig an article %, 27% in Physiology or Medicine Prize for economics prize 41%. other awards, such as 38% of the U.S. National Medal of Science, Kyoto Prize 25%. Mathematics 27% inside the Fields Medal, Wolf Prize 38%. information 27% of classes inside the Turing Award, 37% of the Shannon Award, 42% of the Neumann Award, 1 / 3 of the Pulitzer Prize, 1 / 3 of the Academy Awards. This is the grand prize of Jews in the world take the weight. I also saw a data, as of 2008, Jews accounted for the total number of Nobel Prize winning 25.35% of the population is not his to a population of Beijing. Beijing is now 17 million people around the world adds up to less than 14 million Jews, and their total population is 1%. in the end and there are the mysteries of what makes this nation will be so outstanding. Of course the Nobel Prize is not the only standard, but a more objective, have more meaning and value of the reference frame. Albert Einstein said the words: feel lucky, honored. examine the words of our nation like the opposite of how I feel ah! we in this society, many people also see the pursuit of knowledge for knowledge? a lot of people from small to large school, from parents to school their studies is to what? book good read can make money, can do high-ranking official, so if a man can marry a beautiful woman. Knowledge in the end is for? China since ancient times, especially in the imperial Tang Dynasty over a thousand years after the system has brought us is the treasure to be found, house of gold Real also see the analysis, will be like the back of a news article bastard actually boast hundreds of individuals in the government. how is this possible? If I think this is normal, I think I have brain damage was.
I mean a nation the intellectual elite within the social composition of the whole nation should account for a very important position, but obviously we lack the intellectual elements of such a state. Many people online professor called the Southwest University of Political Science Professor Gao Yifei happened since I think she was more of a bred controversy, because I can not stand that a law professor look like to actually be able to treat a subject who insulted and injured, the leave alone , the latter should go on.
I am going to talk about the second question, China's intellectual class of a simple sort. my comb is a comb under the traditional comparative perspective. a lot of things into a cultural comparison of the environment, then you may see more clearly. I think in the current mainstream of world civilization occupied the status of the two Hebrew civilization, Greece and Greek civilization, civilization mm. Hebrew civilization, a very important tradition is its Prophet tradition, while Greece has a very important sages tradition. I think that the modern Western intellectual tradition is both hope Prophet traditions and sages traditional confluence of the product. If our own traditional culture and their corresponding look at it, can We see that neither China nor the Prophet traditional sage tradition. We have another tradition, it will feel about our features is the After the pre-Qin era and a very big difference, especially in the Western Zhou Dynasty Spring and Autumn Period and after the pre-Qin era, especially the big difference. prophetic tradition is a typical feature of Einstein speaking in front of almost fanatical love of justice, and this in the to curse the Jewish people, to condemn, saying just because you do not believe in God, so what would be subjected to any consequences. and the Hebrew prophets there is such a tradition, even to the king's palace, pointing directly to the King nose curse. the guardian of justice, guardian of the truth, insist on the persistence of faith, are caused by the Hebrew tradition. Greek sages from Socrates, the traditional start to Aristotle. Aristotle Germany said a word: What a happy life? happy life is the contemplative life. This is very typical of the traditional Greek sages. two traditions have a common feature, is the pursuit of truth, for truth can ignore everything. In the Hebrew tradition, there is no doubt a part of justice is truth, is one of the branch content. modern Western intellectual tradition is the agitation in the two traditional civilization originated. in the year after it took Christianity Four hundred years became the state religion of Rome, and then gradually become the dominant force in the heart of Europe, but also politics and religion occupy the throne, so that the Middle Ages experienced a thousand years. and so was the Renaissance as the beginning of time by Bo Jiaqiu Culture launched an attack to come from the Greek tradition. do not know if there is no Christian friends here, although I was very respectful of him, but I do not believe he is God's only son. I think he is a very great prophet, but he never not God. I say may offend Christian friends here, but I think the strength and growth of Christianity in the year after the Annals, the reason will have thousands of dark Middle Ages, Jewish and Catholic non-tampering of the idolatry of the great commandment relationship. until after the beginning of the Renaissance, the European spirit of the force from the Greek for spiritual resources, will be tampered with remedial culture. to the 18th century Enlightenment took place with the Greek spirit is a great relationship, to the late 19th century, 20 century to a new round of Nietzsche as the representative of Renaissance with the ancient Greek spirit is a great relationship. Nietzsche wrote, caught in a lack of energy, lack of state of Dionysian spirit. It is interesting that there is a lot of the book Nietzsche criticized Jews criticized Jesus, I think he is a little more or less to confuse Judaism and Christianity, the later repeat that. Here, I simply said what the two hope the Western intellectual tradition have class and the difference between traditional Chinese.
arrogant establishment of centralized unity since the Qin and Han dynasties, the Chinese have not left this class of taxis, Even now, who is still the class of power and wealth by nurturing the mistress hierarchy, there is no difference. So Mr. Yuan Weishi There is a saying it really well, he said people should do well to study two things, one is speaking, a pieces are rich. you think about all of your sources are provided by the system, you can have any backbone? my major after 04 years into the law within the system I found the biggest feature is that all the things you that you have have to kneel down. I gave them the answer is I do not kneel. you give me a title of Professor Ph.D. I will not be dizzy, because I think that many professors move them when I graduate I will not do! course with learned the true master of this than I am now an associate professor when I am very ashamed. as Mr. Zhong Zukang said the Chinese people spend a lot of time on the hypocrisy of those things. Some of the title of professor is to flip on the card , but they have much knowledge of the ideological content, the academic content? Some people say that we have published papers is the world's largest, and we do not also the world's population, the largest number? I said, the core essence of Chinese culture is now What is it? is the population ah. You were so many who do not take you any way, you strength in numbers ah, but what culture you do not. The first do not say it.
I cite the traditional Chinese persons one example, the Eastern Han Dynasty Guangwu just when the Emperor, so he recruited the world people, in particular, is known as the hermit of the people, he would like to see these people, because to see these people that he is ; of the emperor. there is a named party who has refused to week, the official spent a lot of effort just to get him, the weekly party came to owe a bit to see Guangwu body, nod, nor kneel . Guangwu uncomfortable, but the inconvenience to attack, Guangwu still relatively civilized person. At that time, a minister called Van liters of very angry letter to the emperor to impunity Week party, but Guangwu said forget it. you know, Wang Fu-chih is a great thinker, in his function to the Chinese people are basically here to become a useful ground. We can also see the great thinker par with xi Wang Fu-chih, which we now preserved in the historical data can be seen only on the imperial power put forward the most sharp criticism of the people. Mr. Huang Zongxi in the rather than a person. He said the Emperors is the greatest traitor. This saying is very much in place, and had never dared say so, at least where we see the historical data, of course, there may have been hiding under the bedclothes that , but not the public question to be called in a public space that freedom of speech. Someone told me about free speech on the network that he can at home, what to say, this is called freedom of speech does not ah. I suspect that the ancient Chinese, where there are who criticized the imperial power, but no records, or the day after he said disappeared. Haoshouqiongjing handed down from history's books can be found in our study who did not know the books are read to go, no found what they thought. If, like Zhu Xi as the invention of a He joked that the teacher, the official If you want to discredit the very easy, let me as Minister of Propaganda, and I for a week in the your book and no one ask you to write articles. a joke, I mean any thing if they are handpicked as the only official word of the truth really finished, our objective point of view, Zhu Xi is in fact very thoughtful.
who we continue to say that China's problems. to the Ming dynasty, like the emperor in Chinese history is indeed very rare, only one can be even more than his rival out of his Mao Zedong. the emperor does not have a Before In the cruel extent, the extent of the conspiracy, in ignorance of the extent, than he is At that time there was a policy, people do not read as I used to kill all. we all know, in the Ming Dynasty, the system has a very asshole mm Ting Zhang. That to me like this reader, and do not see you dressed with a tie, you do not Paxia pants spanking disobedient. It is specifically designed to study people to humiliate. you get the Han emperor Liu Bang Ru crown when the urinal, the emperor is a person with , said, a woman holding a large watermelon Bigfoot, the answer it is a horse Queen Mother. because the Empress is the Huaixi horse woman, the so-called Bigfoot Huaixi good woman. the emperor how to deal with this matter it? can not find the people who compiled this mystery, who put all of this street to kill. the emperor in a few cases inside, such as Hu Lan Party case, the number killed at least 5 million or more. 16 Ming emperors, in addition to two or three will add up to good decade rule of the Emperor, the other non-mixed or bad. little ability to downright bad, can not afford ridiculous. there is an illiterate emperor mm Ming Xi Zong, the person in the cockpit area is actually very talented, but does not suitable for the emperor.
China scholars in the take a look at Mao, how the whole of these scholars. Mr. Dai Qing wrote biographies of several people, which referred to the year to do hair at the university library administrator is said to be suffered when a foreign professor's gas, is unconvinced. Once the hand the weight will kill you. he did when the administrator's salary according to his own with eight ocean, it was verified that only 6 of the ocean. when a nanny is a monthly fee of two oceans, and an ordinary professor pay at least 300 ocean. Xun Ye Qian matter for the Ministry of Education salary is 300 Ocean. I have to 2006 or earlier currency calculated that, of 300 Ocean should be able to buy 4,000 kg of meat. I give you a few simple examples to illustrate the gross How to deal with scholars such as Feng, bluntly said that he is really 49 years after the intellectual class in China, a big joke. then that inspired the poems sent to the ass, saying actually began his jail time. Do not say the wrong ass shot, as long as the ass to take power will always take the wrong ass. This is a reading must be clear of one thing.
even Liu Shaoqi came to power, but also As may be better than the hair. We all know that when he was doing what the domineering chairman, he wanted to smoke, to the point on the back of someone. some time ago that , to a pig, there is a pig ran to her pad. I think after 49 years, many scholars in China are the pig, is dedicated to power when the mats. Feng is the year things are not written to power when the mats? really deserve to suffer the consequences of this, of course, should not say that from a humanitarian point of view. but I think the ancients this sentence can never be wrong: people must first and then people from the shame of humiliation.
so Every time I see a lot of people on the Internet to kneel down to the official requirements of justice, I look very uncomfortable. Why can not you stand up?! you have to tell me to kneel down to the people respect you ah! is also a scholar of China Like, when the wounds when the popular literature, Deng Xiaoping said something great words: the words say it all, as did Lin Zhao. From this day 49 years until the political prisoners inside such as Lin Zhao is unique. Only Lin Zhao a person to stand up directly against the Communist Party to give it a trial: you committed crimes against humanity! This is Lin Zhao done. other political prisoners is simply that I did not sin ah! nonsense of course you did not sin, do it with you? should be said that I did not sin, but rather that you are guilty ! If you have been in court in the quality debate I did not sin, then you do it in court? necessary? sentenced him directly not to over do with him is unreasonable it? wrong so I do not like the word is that people do wrong you made a mistake, a mistake you do not bullshit people, people engage in is you! (Laughter, applause)
I think this is a spiritual phenomenon kneel, until now also extremely serious. If we did not 49 years after Lin Zhao such a person, we study one class is almost zero in the fight. is because of her, it still points to save face. She and the two men shared the Prophet Gu Zhun traditional and sage tradition, Lin Zhao is a prophet. Maybe because I can not see the reach of many materials, there are a lot of people were flooded out, we do not know. to see that we now view these materials, I like to think Lin Zhao is now 49 years played the greatest freedom fighters. only her see clearly that the regime is totalitarian regimes, not only look at it, and that out. That is because she has faith.
general speaking, this tradition, starting from the imperial examination system, even after 49 years not to speak, read your source of income for all people uprooted, more terrible than the imperial examination system, have turned into the power of the client. I admire a the elderly, the CASS Institute of Religious Studies, director of the Tang Yat old. Tang old told me, he had the language at university in the North West will be open to all Hispanic languages are learned. He is also the same with Mr. Qian .50's amazing memory when he resigned, actually I can not imagine what that era was the concept of resignation, I feel like suicide is a little different. He's the only reason for the resignation did not want to, you always make I am in a state of lack of dignity, I do not want to do a. Tang is also a very good book, but unfortunately has not caused enough attention to the academic, who is the study of medieval theology, not easy to pay attention to is also quite normal , but his knowledge is very great. He has several books I have very like it, like the Commercial Press's out of the see, it is a tradition attached to power. Its basic characteristic is that knowledge itself is not much of interest, such as those of ancient Chinese scientists, inventors, if he had not worked as an official to simply do not know what he is who, like Zhang Heng. We are a very, very practical reason of nationality, you must be out of useful things, this thing is useless if the words to ignore. other aspects, the economy is also not particularly easy to separate, such as the Ming Gu Qing end of the great thinkers, why do so much knowledge, wrote . Yu early good book hidden, not read. Gu wrote good design, but unfortunately there are still a lot of people thought not keep up with him. He said: into. federalism, it is really ridiculous way of thinking. near that, and said centralized system is very simple, it can not have good governance. It is a self-contradictory system, you think, where appointed, then they will certainly be the central responsibility. But since he is the Dong Chang, . look at Chongqing, Bo Xilai, is not, should be called Mao Xilai, while hitting, and while plastic surgery gave Chongqing, how do you tube, unable to manage. ancients have a saying, the world has been the first rule governing the Shu, the world is not chaos Shu first mess! from a centralized point of view, that place is a place to make trouble, ah, do not go in the army are sent. These unlimited power will do whatever they want, and must be evil, there is no second possibility. Therefore, this centralized system is self-contradictory.
then we can imagine that China's thousands of years of history is basically a vassal of power and wealth. historically lauded scholars are often advocates of strengthening the central authority, like Yi. He is considered too much for the emperor, the Han Emperor not wait to see him, was exiled. first-class place in Changsha, he went to pay tribute to Qu Yuan had. Speaking of Qu Yuan, I think, in fact, truly represent the suicide jump, a castrated. emasculated two types, one is material, one is spiritual in nature. Chinese scholars as a group is concerned, the material and spiritual castration castration must choose one, not the first Three possible, unless you leave the group. at least in the past is that, especially in the Mao era. Mao era a scholar if hospice is very great, this is the highest achievement. There are many people may have been overlooked, may be able to hospice. but this is relatively rare, because Mao is really a is gay, this does not mean impossible. But I think if the usual political and cultural meaning to interpret, to some extent that suicide is a spiritual expression kneel. Like Qian, I used to really like, Qian respected, even admired his young once too, that a scholar could write, , you will immortal. Borges says do not be so pessimistic. back to Sima Qian, but then I saw a large number of words of Sima Qian of China opened a very bad tradition: bragging heritage. including my own text inside, sometimes the same problem. That is, I discovered that the Communist Party of education received the biggest feature is that I will spend a whole lifetime to detoxification. If I have moment to relax not toxins, then it becomes a pox on my face pox, it is very troublesome. Sometimes my wife is very sharp eyes, she was often seen, but she is very tolerant. such as the text of my problems even though she came to see, but she said nothing. But She immediately let me know I made a mistake. As expected, infected with Han Yu's style of writing, and infected with Sima Qian's writing style, or infected with the style of Mao Zedong, they are the same strain. hair style is actually from Chinese traditional in the past. We look like Sima Qian wrote, time thousands of years have not been able to tease out a set of real,

Yapeng first person, then is the star

 I'm not starstruck, but mostly from the understanding Yapeng entertainment news reports, as always on the headlines of his business or home, nature can not help but look at. I guess a few people like me, that is, We understand the Yapeng is have and the like, which shares the wind passed, nothing natural.
Yapeng the suit in the face of this event, we should say is a brave and proper behavior. Star is also the people, their rights are violated, the same can pick up the legal weapons to protect their dignity. star who first, and then the star. Yapeng is doing something we should all do what ordinary people. In fact, if those scattered reports of string together Yapeng , we can find, he has been trying to do in life themselves, rather than the entertainment of their own. His first son, husband, father, so he, like all men with the love of parents, love of wife, love children, love of family and entertainment in the state of his work he is, as we are lawyers, doctors, accountants same. He and Faye Wong is a pair of the combination of man and woman love the combination of farming, men and women weave, having children, Like all married couples life. is their job to their unwarranted annoyance, if the life and work separate, this all out. If the entertainment reporters are separated from the life and work, and not intentionally add some random unwarranted suspicion, I think all of them to return to normal life.
more entertainment if people can live in such a state of mind, the face of right and wrong, and I think they themselves will fundamentally solve the problems . If the entertainment reporters also write this as the standard of news, entertainment news will be a real

Legends

 Agassi and Sampras together to create a time mm Tour Finals, the Olympics, almost all of the most important tournament. Agassi has been unique in their own maverick known to the world, he had been as wild and uninhibited, blonde hair is so fluffy and sexy fashion professional tennis will be gossip or even linked together. Now, married to a German tennis teen idol Steffi Graf and Agassi, education has two children mature men exude charm, and a driving force.
90 as the last century, and Pete Sampras claimed the men's tennis king level figures, Agassi has been unique in their own maverick known to the world, he had been as wild and uninhibited, Durian is so blonde, but the two unhappy marriages destroyed his self-confidence, has experienced the lowest of his career after winning the French Open again in 1999 allows us to see that returning to the tennis genius, and the Since then, he's happy marriage with Steffi Graf has also been the blessing of the world tennis fans.
and has been in a semi-retired state than Sampras, Agassi stubborn unwillingness to admit defeat the spirit of endless but it is worth to respect all people, he still maintained a very high competitive level, he won the 2003 Australian Open champion, last year's French Open and U.S. Open quarter-finals and were also runner-up. In most of the time of the year, Agassi has maintained ATP world rankings and championship ranked first name of both the first position, but have been frustrated in the Wimbledon and U.S. Open, now the location has been more young and vibrant Roddick , Ferrero, Federer and other occupied.
Agassi is now the biggest desire to be able to share with their families more time to spend with the family in his wife Steffi Graf gave birth to her daughter shortly after this happy families have been the eldest son Jaden and daughter Jackie are two lively little figures.
2006 �� 6 24, 36-year-old tennis legend Andre Agassi announced that 2006 Wimbledon tennis tournament will be was his last Wimbledon, August 28 the U.S. will begin his last entry, after which he announced his retirement. In the 21 years of tennis career (1986 Agassi turned professional arena that is), A Garcia had gains of 60 titles, which won 8 Grand Slam singles titles, four tennis Grand Slam history, all five had aspirations to one of the men's singles players. He has won four Australian Open titles, two U.S. Open titles and captured a rule the roost at the French Open, won Wimbledon in 1992 for the first time, once occupied the position of world number one, and 90s of last century and said Sampras's men's tennis King-level characters. Interestingly, it is Sampras U.S. Open final in 2002, retired after beating Andre Agassi, Andre Agassi, U.S. Open venue has chosen as his final stage.
London, July 1, the temperature Network Men's 3rd round of a focus of war, the American legend number one Andre Agassi and Rafael Nadal the king of Spain to start a new life and death battle, the last Agassi 6-7 (5) / 2-6/4 -6 lost to Nadal in the out, but also a Wimbledon farewell forever. place winner, leaving fans remember the glory is eternal.
am Beijing time on September 4, U.S. Open men's singles round 3 of the focus of the war, the U.S. legend Andre Agassi lost to Germany's 1 to 3 Benjamin - Baker. This means that before the game was announced at the U.S. Open Andre Agassi retired after the game will say goodbye to professional tennis stadium, 60 ATP Tour titles, including eight Grand Slam titles, only one in history have both Four Grand Slam titles and Olympic gold medal in the men professional tennis player Andre Agassi hh for a century the legendary writing career.
Andre. Agassi bid farewell, but in the hearts of the fans, and he wrote the name of the network Forum legend has never faded. He is full of passion for life, he set multiple identities in one, he is both a tennis champion is a politician, not only athletes but also actively engaged in various public welfare activities and bored. Andre Agassi has been In his own way to get people to share in all his glamorous! Even before he left, we still feel, give up his tennis sinking heart, that heart is the heart of the struggle alive!
lot of people say Andre Agassi's eyes can speak, can tell you all you want to know. in terms of irritability or pleasure, you can always get what you want the eyes of Andre Agassi's reply; either with fan encounter strangers or old friends of each channel with the blessing, and the eyes are politely convey friendship; When you win in the game saw the eyes, you can guess who is in charge the race, who make time stuck in his field, who let the other party no time intermittently exhausting! sharp enough to be the outcome: soft, enough of the danger.

Brazil and the North Korean team before the game predicted

 Wednesday, June 16 2:30 am, North Korean team.
North Korean state and a good team, May 15 warm-up match with Greece on a 2-2 draw with the best striker Zheng Taishi right foot scored 2 goals, known as the Rooney Korean people.
from past experience, Brazil is the overwhelming advantage, the gap between technologies, Brazil, short passes with North Korea will pass within half. The team's morale is very high in Brazil. As won the 1994 World Cup captain Dunga, now as head coach of the Brazilian national team in all aspects of control of the team. won the Champions League Inter Milan Houwei Mai Kong said, in his football career, get World Cup is the most important, now is a few opportunities.
mainly in the first game to take a look at the case of Brazil, although the team's goal is to win 6th World Cup .2009-10 season, Real Madrid, Spain, the effectiveness of state general Kaka, June 2nd lower back pain occurs in the warm-up match the state of goalkeeper Cesar is also a concern. Dunga led by Brazil, with more attention to the overall I hope to show solidarity through the first match of the Brazilian team. Brazil team to rely on technology, more attention to the construction of defensive lines, that is so possible to use kill opponents fast break set. Last year, Brazil has made the United will Cup, in response to attacks is also mainly depend on Kaka.
North Korean team will certainly be an uphill battle, as long as the defensive line a little slack, it is possible to lose points. If Zheng Taishi have the chance, it is possible to score.
not say more, predict, North Korea forces have wanted it to upset, but it does not likely. Brazil 2-0 North Korean team.

Pay close attention to resolve the tragic national football three Cilly

 If the last round of the national football home game against Qatar is carrying the coffin of the war, it's all just now Kunitari dead for now point to the dignity of living for the future point of hope. To this dignity, this hope, Football tough battle for the cycle, we still continue to pay attention.
early interpretation of the European Cup to the people of what is called football, the brightest spot of the miracle of the Netherlands in the group of death tells us that this is football - one can dream and miracle root things in reality. I transferred one month before the European Cup will be the clock time, the charge method in the war passion, I have no sleepy to begin preparations for another game --- World Cup in China and Iraq qualifiers. heart feel strange, a little envious, a little turn iron into steel, of course, a little fantasy.
in the last round of qualifying home strips excellent situation ruin after being devastated fans in China have Ganchangcunduan in the current round Iraq no longer have any hope. So now all the national football's only win points for the dignity of the dead now, live to fight for the future point of hope. To this dignity, this hope, a very tough battle for the cycle of Chinese football, we still continue to pay attention. Folado in the game before the conference rightly declared that possibilities.
today's Iraq team is by no means the first battle in the New Year's Eve impairment awards by the Chinese draw the Iraq war is not off two bombs in Iraq, Qatar Jingtun, nor is it a ball away in Iraq lost to Australia, Today, Iraq is seen there this hope in Iraq, is just home win over Australia's Iraq, is the morale was high, best players together in Iraq. The national football card in the battle as lost as gamblers, the cleaners, but also impairment of three general. Now the real situation of the national team did not want nothing less than slim. In short Iraq is now a AK47, while shorthanded, techniques and tactics that we have become depleted of cold steel.
Fortunately, football is the hope and fertile ground for miracles. I saw two away games in Iraq and found that this team has a lot of the Gate of Life, as long as we seize the advantage of stable Accurate, or to bless this forlorn hope of the fire.
first Iraq blindly away pressure or back on defense before a large scale, leading to between midfield and back line lost its depth, not a loss of flexibility. This will help us on the offensive. Second attack in Iraq left too heavy, so the road led to a few second clean sheet. We can strengthen the defense, based on the play Bianlu the fierce offensive. Finally, the Iraqi offensive focused on the road Younis point all have to pass him as the last point. For such a single point of attack , our defense to be more specific. anti-death Younis point, or damage to his face as the core, that is, damage to his passing, cutting, or destruction of shells transmission channels.
seize opponents Vital on the premise that we must be patient, patiently creating opportunities, patiently waiting for an opportunity; we must unite, not to hold those worldly selfishness; the court to do knowing, each other, to no ill feelings, exchange without problems, farewell dumb ball, the only way to make 11 people as a whole,UGG boots, in order for the same 11 individuals to fight as soldiers.

Were the beginning of the -5

 Top ten most beautiful classical love motto
1) I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.
I love you not because of who you are, but because I love you with all the feeling.
2) No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.
No person deserves your tears, it is worth let you do that will not make you cry.
3) The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.
lost someone worst He almost beside expect them to.
4) Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
even sad, do not distress does not development, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
5) To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
To the world you are a person ; but to one person you may be the world.
6) Donlt waste your time on a man / woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
you can not have who takes the time to waste your time.
7) Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
love If you do not your people the way you want to love you, that does not mean they do not love you.
8) Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to. < br> Do not worry, the best things in the most casual
9) Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful .
try so hard, Maybe God wants us to meet other people; we finally meet the person, we will be grateful.
10) Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.
Just because someone does not love you with all they have.
necessary sixty-seven life motto mm to give everyone as love for luxury
products: the best do not, they can live.
sign any contracts to see at least three times before. If it is marriage, but also to carefully weigh.
Going, but not say no to.
for your physical and mental health can be a pet, for pet's health, do not support the. It is said that they would be so lonely depression.
take vitamin pills every day, adhere to calcium, which tumble or fall in the bathtub broken leg, even if you can climb out of emergency phone to play until the doctors came and put in the clothes, I am afraid to lie in bed in March.
more people as little more to a large refrigerator, and spiritual emptiness can be filled with food. If the open refrigerator without food, can encourage you to work hard.
try to choose foods high in protein, more fiber, low fat, low calorie, Eat small meals often.
buy the insurance.
prepared in the office on a thick coat , an umbrella.
colleagues compliment like perfume, you can smell, but do not drink.
Never ask the question: Why do not you love me?
determination not to give in advance.
not anything anyone would be important enough to need you 12 points after a bitter middle of the night does not want to sleep.
if there is no six-figure appearance fees, not to attend the very men and women like the TV show.
sincere smile, do not fear of wrinkles.
Lantern Festival, Valentine's Day may request to work overtime without programming. lest go home alone, depressed, or recalling the tragic, and can give a good impression on the boss.
former lover called to ask you Recently, OK. to say good.
past, fairy story is the beginning of a long time ago. Now, the fairy tale is if I had not married at the beginning, remember that you have passed the age to listen to fairy tales.
learn to do a few dishes.
weekend to their stew.
do not drink at all times, something the night before the next day morning sickness but also their own clean up, then you'll spit second. < br> essential medicines put away in the drawer.
home not more than 10 sleeping pills.
want to do something, think to say. do not want to work when, say no.
make more money, but who do not fancy you more to the point where you should be suspicious.
expected to get to work, no hope of do not mind, so that win or lose, will look good posture.
fact, life is lonely even with partners. cultivate an interest as soon as possible, such as flowers after the middle-aged fish.

Dr. Kai-fu Lee third letter

 Third letter: success, confidence, happiness
had, and I share many Chinese students are focusing on how to achieve excellence and excellence, leadership and how to be launched. Recently, Sina and I chat room received many emails, I found more and more Chinese students need to know not how from good to great, but how to positive from confusion, from failure to success, from inferiority to self-confidence, from melancholy to joy, from fear to optimism.
An extreme example is the February 2004 took place in Yunnan University Majiajue events. Majiajue brutally murdered his four classmates. But Ma Jiajue was arrested conversations with the psychologist's view, He should not be an evil person, but a lost, lack of self-confidence, character enclosed children. He and many college students, eager to know how to be successful, confident and happy.
I write this letter is to those who want to succeed but that the success of reach, but always eager to self-pity self-confidence, desire happiness but happiness of the mass of students do not know to read. hope this letter will give the reader a new one on the definition of success, encouraging readers to awareness and recognize themselves to be a happy person. hope this letter will help readers understand the success, confidence, happiness is a virtuous circle: where you can be confident from the success and happiness can be obtained from the self-confidence in a happy and successful, from the happy where you can be successful and confident.
success is to be the best you
b William Faulkner, American writer once said: stronger than you now. community to see fame and fortune. especially in today's China, people bear the brunt of the pursuit of wealth, all walks of life, the success of the evaluation of a person, more personal wealth indicators. However, with the best results can be of contribute to society? Yes fame certainly happy?
true success should be diversified. success may be that you have created new wealth or technology, may bring you happiness for others, it may be get your job the trust of others may also find the back of your self, inoffensive way of life. The success of each person is unique. So, Ling Zhijun, in its The important conclusion is that a better day than yesterday.
successful first step: take aim in life, be a proactive person
Sina chat room, when friends ask what my purpose in life, I was so answer: efficient, can bring them happiness and joy. For me, life goals is not a slogan, but my best think-tank, it has helped me many times to solve the problem of work and life. I had to give up work in the United States and moved to China was founded Microsoft Research China, The latter is because I think there is a greater influence on the work, and my goal in life is more consistent. In addition, when I received a letter from the students lost letters, write them a letter, I would think: How to make a greater impact reply? realize arrested after the incident. He said: it later, right now I see I was wrong. In fact, the meaning of life is that there really is. parents, sister, how would think of this? so, he may not go astray by.
so, whether to the truth, in order to influence, or for pleasure, family, morality, tranquility, knowledge, innovation hh Once the goals in life, you can target, like me, under the guidance of life, decisively and make major life decisions. each person's life goals are unique. The most important thing is, you have to take the initiative to hold their own goal in life. But do not be rushed, not in pursuit of so-called My goal this is what they? I can not answer, because only one person can tell what your goal in life, that person is you. only one place you can find your target, that is your heart.
I I suggest you close your eyes, the first one comes in your mind the ideal record, as the answer without thinking is the most sincere. Or, you can look back at your happiest, most rewarding time in whether there is something in common? they are probably the most motivating your life goal. Furthermore, you can imagine, fifteen years later, when you reach the perfect state of life, you will in any kind of environment? what kind of work? One of the most fun thing is what? Of course, you may wish to talk about family and friends, listen to their views.
the success of the second step: to try new areas to explore your
to be the best interest of your own, the most important thing is to play to their full potential, pursue the most interesting and the most passionate thing. When you are interested in a certain area, you will walk in class or taking a bath when they never forget it, you're in the area easier to succeed. Furthermore, if you have passion in this area, you may neither eat nor sleep for it, think of an idea even when sleeping, will jump. this time , you have to work not for success, but to There may be nothing. Even if you rely on intelligence or talent to do it well, you definitely do not release all of the potential. So I do not agree with every student to pursue the most popular professional, I think everyone should know their interests, passions and abilities (that is, emotional intelligence has said the When you wake up, that they will for the technical progress to human development and improvement of life and excitement. love the software, Bill Gates gave up mathematics b. If he left school at Harvard to continue reading and become a professor of mathematics, can you imagine his potential will be suppressed and to what degree? 2002, Bill Gates led b Microsoft After 25 years, but decided the CEO job to Steve Ballmer, because the only way he can join in the work of his favorite mm as chief software architect, specializing in software technology innovation. Although Bill b Gates was an excellent chief executive, but when he he was named chief software architect, his direction of the company made a significant contribution to technology and, more importantly, he is more passion, more happiness, and this also raise the morale of all employees.
good friend Bill Gates, b, b Warren Buffett, the world's second richest man also recognized the importance of passion. When a student asked him the direction, he always would reply: advice of the. . The U.S. a well-known SEM has done a survey and found that while most students want to chase fame and fortune in the admission, but alumni with the most fame and fortune, 90% of the ideal pursuit of admission, rather than chasing fame.
I entered the university, to engage in legal or political work. a year later I found myself not interested in it, only in the middle grades. but I love the computer, every day crazy programming, quickly caught the teacher, the students attention. Finally, one day sophomore year, I made a major decision: to abandon more than a year after the nation's top three in the Faculty of Law at Columbia University has cultivated itself into credits transferred to Columbia University, an obscure computer system. I told myself, life only once, should not be wasted in the absence of joy, no sense of accomplishment in the field. at that time a friend said to me, will pay a lot of change in professional costs, but I told them be a work of passion will not pay a higher price. That day, I elated spirits, I promise to myself, each subject three years after the University should take the decision of A. If not that day, and today I in the computer field will not have achievements, and I probably just a small town in the United States is neither successful nor happy to be a lawyer.
Even so, the passion of my career and I am far from than his father. I have always thought his father was a stern man to see his father's favorite until last year the two students (who are now professors), I know how much my father loved his work. his students told me: ; My father is 70 years old, after the army, politics and writing career after finding his favorite mm teaching. He passed away in his drawer to find the students he encouraged his two sentences: sunset knowing that the short, not of spontaneous. interests and talents should be separated. do you have the talent to do easy achievements, but do not because they do well to think it is of interest to you. To find the true interest and passion, you can ask yourself: for something , you are eager to repeat it, whether I can happily and successfully complete it? you have been longing for the past is not it? is always quick to learn it? it always makes you satisfied? you sincerely from the heart ( not just from my mind) love it? you the happiest thing in life and it is not relevant? When you ask yourself, pay attention not to the expectations of your parents, social values and the influence of friends into your answer.
If you can clearly answer the question, then you are lucky, because most of the students in the university four years in exploration or remorse. If you have yet to find answers to these questions, I have only one suggestion: give yourself the opportunity to reach up to a maximum of choice. remember when I first entered the doctoral program at Carnegie Mellon b, the school has a mechanism that allows students pick teachers. in the first month, each teacher so that the stops to make the body attract students. It is because of this mechanism, I was lucky enough to meet my mentor, Professor Reddy, select the subject of my PhD, can go to understand the different schools, professional, subject and teacher, and then pick and choose your interest. You can also libraries, networks, seminars, club activities, friends, communication, e-mail and other ways to find hobbies. only contact with you to try, you can only try to find your favorite.
Ya-Qin Zhang of my colleagues once said: lessons learned. Therefore, only those who dare to try, is an absolute failure. > Successful Step: for interest, set milestones, a step forward
find your interest, the next step is to do the development of specific milestones, Yibubuxiang their ideals forward.
First, you should objectively assess their own interests and ideals from the still badly what? is a need to learn a lesson, read a book, make a more sociable person, control your temper or become a better speaker? After fifteen years to perfect their own today and what is the difference? ... you should try to fill these gaps. For example, when I decided to make my life purpose is to maximize my influence, I found I am most lacking is speech and communication skills. I used to be an embarrassing and talk to people on stage speaking students fear it will. I was especially bad when you do teaching assistants, students and even took me a nickname. Therefore, in order to achieve my ideal, I set myself a number of presentation and communication skills to improve the specific objectives.
Second, you should be set phase, the specific objectives, and then give full play to the Chinese people traditional virtues mm hard, up and perseverance to complete the goal. For example, I demand of myself to do two speeches a month, and every time my classmates or friends to sit, give me feedback. I promise to myself, do not rehearsal times, and never came speech. I demand of myself a month to listen to lectures, ask for advice to the excellent speakers. One speaker taught me several ways to overcome fear, he said, if you look at the audience's eyes nervous, you can see the audience's head, and the audience will still think you look at their faces, in addition, is best not to take the paper and hand grip from the fist to come as a trembling hand to the attention of the audience will not . When I repeated practice speaking skills, I discovered a lot of their tips, such as: no script, through story-telling way to express, I will perform better, so I'm still prepared speech but only when used in the rehearsal ; I found my ability to answer questions beyond my ability to speak, so I usually stay for the time required to answer questions; I found myself not interested will not be able to speak good things, so I will not promise that I am not interested in speaking subject. A few years later, the people around me Doukua my speech well, some people even think I was born a good speaker, in fact, I just practice hard the Chinese people, up and only the traditional virtues such as perseverance.
any goals must be realistic, measurable goals, not just stay in the ideological slogans or empty talk. setting goals for the purpose of progress, do not measure you can not know whether they made progress. So, you have to abstract , and can not be implemented, measurable goals can not be simplified into practical, measurable small goals. For example, a few years ago, I have a goal is to expand my network of people in the company, but In the course of a meal, and then introduce that person to an influential person to me. to these basic In this network of people in the know. A year later, I did from these measurements, we see their networks have been significantly expanded.
the development of specific goals must be realistic about their capabilities. goal setting over high of course unrealistic, but the target must not set too low. on target and timely adjustments to be done: if you exceed their expectations, can expect to improve; If you do not meet their expectations, can be expected to reduce. reached a goal, you can then develop more challenging goals; fails to embrace that, conscientiously sum up the lessons.
Finally, once again reminded the students, the goal is yours, only you know what he wants. to develop the most appropriate target, take the initiative to enhance themselves and improve the process in an objective measure of progress, in order to be successful, you can become better.
self-confidence is self confident and not arrogant
who dare to try new field, can quickly develop their interests and talents, more likely to succeed. self-confident people are more happy, because he will not always worry about and guard against failure.
many people think that confidence is a success. a student too old first, he had confidence. an employee is always being promoted, he also has confidence. But this is only the success of unified and centralized self-confidence.
fact, confidence is not necessarily a good thing. do not feel confident will be pride, it will lose the respect and trust of others. good self-confidence is self-conscious, that is very clear what they can do and can not do. conscious self-confidence, his probability of success is very large; conscious when people do not self-confidence He can try, but the risk will be frank to tell others. conscious people do not need to enhance self-confidence through success, failure will not result in the loss of self-confidence.
confident first step: Do not underestimate yourself, and more to pump myself up
hh I experienced a lot of people than I am, I am inferior. only to be useful, Once the teacher asked, hand and answered the question correctly. not encouragement and recognition of the students gave me confidence. I began to tell myself that I have a math talent. At this time, I especially want to learn English, because the only way to learn more math. This will not only improve the educational methods my self-confidence, but also helped me in every respect has made considerable progress.
Chinese-style education that people continue to overcome the shortcomings of the growth process is, so the teacher more in the criticism of students, for students to make up for the worst subject . Although all learn each subject should be Roper study found that: most people are trying to grow up The secret of the most successful people are most of the energy spent on things that their own interest, to gain tremendous self-confidence.
Ling Zhijun's I believe I am the smartest. Even if the later days I often than others, but I said to myself: I can do better than others ; in the brush 108 a bottle, broke the record, to gain self-confidence. He said: with an attractive force, has continued to this day. I found the whole secret of genius, in fact, only six words: Do not underestimate yourself. ; learning think what happened today is worth what you are proud of? you get a good result? you help others? What is beyond your expectations? who praise you? I believe that every person every day to find a successful thing, you will gradually find that these a match. He even let the game players and the most proud of an action (such as the clenched fist) linked so that their time to do this action, they will subconsciously think of pride thing, and then repeated before each game to do this action in order to
confident Step two: with determination, courage, self-confidence from the success in obtained from increasing failure in the conscious
when you're feeling confident, no matter how small the success, you will once again have their own particular expectations or affirmation of others, then you need to have enough willpower. as long as you have the stamina, will, like Zhou said, anything, this is not a problem you can not learn, but you want to learn. If you have something in his hand a burning desire, you will have an indomitable spirit, especially when you are normal when the people. problem, but to the president before, always afraid to speak, for fear wrong thing. until one day, to do the restructuring of the company, President convened a meeting more than a dozen people, he asked each person speak in turn. I thought, since some talk about, It would be better to speak out truth. So I bravely said: and ideas hh accepted my proposal to change the company's policy in the restructuring, but also often quoted to me. From then on, I am full of confidence, not afraid to speak in front of anybody. This example fully confirmed, how do you know you can not think about what you are afraid of losing? the worst fate that? you can not accept it? In the above example, if the president rejected my view, he will not respect me? not only will not, others may also I would think that courage. Moreover, the conscious people will learn from the failure to recognize that they are not fit to do something, and then upgrade their own initiative. So do not fear failure, as long as you do the force, willing to limit their own challenge, you should be proud of their courage.
a confident and conscious, and if they will bravely try new things, and perseverance to do it well, where he will gain confidence from the success from failure increase in the self.
confident the third step: consciously set specific objectives, with an open mind to listen to others, develop self-confidence assessment
also set specific goals, step by step forward. These goals must be measure. I had left my president to speak before the case told my daughter to listen, because her teacher thought she was shy to speak in the schools do not raise their hands, and I want to encourage her courage to speak. She agreed to try, but she that only at the appropriate time, there are only willing to speak the best advice. But I think with the measurable, realistic goals: one hand she held a day and if you have one month bonus. Then, we slowly increase the number of hands. A year later, the teacher noticed that she had enough class to speak self-confidence.
self-confidence not paranoid, does not allow their own mistakes, or excessive self-centered, loss of an objective position. I have a very smart colleagues, look for his life, sentence Once in a statement that he was wrong, he would say so outright, or simply denied. Although his correct rate of 95%, but 5% of the error so that he lost his credibility and the respect of others . This example tells us that pride of self-confidence or unconsciously self-confidence self-confidence even more dangerous than not.
consciously in emotional intelligence has two levels: both for themselves and the environment Jieneng to master the objective and subjective situation. There conscious people do not overly self-critical, and will not naively optimistic, they can objectively assess their own. Therefore, they will honestly face the limits of their ability, will not easily accept their own ability to work outside. Of course, they still willing to accept the challenge, but will accept the challenge to do an objective risk assessment. such a person not only for their frank and honest to others also. honest people will face the failure of the trust, because they know you accept the lesson. frank ground of his weaknesses will be the respect of others, because they know you will not presumptuous. So, people tend to consciously successful, it tends to self-confidence.
conscious people not only fair to yourself, but also offered to the surrounding one gives to their criticism and feedback. They understand that although he is very conscientious, but others saw themselves as more important. the one hand, others saw themselves more objectively, on the other hand, others saw their real existence their own (and accept other people's ideas, but also with other people's ideas as the ultimate goal. For example, my daughter can assess their everyday speech, but in the end, only when teachers and students that she was a cheerful, with the idea of a student, she to reach the ultimate goal.
get honest feedback, especially negative feedback is not easy. So, you'd better have some brave and honest good friends, and they are willing to speak the truth to you in private. Of course, negative feedback you can not have any complaints, or you to hear the truth of the future. In addition to the feedback in private, the company in the United States, there is a , under the same survey done in several areas. because the survey is anonymous, it tends to get real opinions, and if a lot of people say you still need to improve in certain areas, so to say than his boss's views or more convincing. While in school, no such formal investigation, but you can still best way to understand something you think. My father always taught us to seek the things to the public, this means open minded, not to Wells Sky, limited his vision.
Majiajue said: a friend, perhaps he will confirm the students really looked down and understand why, then self-improvement. frank exchange and a true friend probably can help avoid the tragedy of Ma Jiajue.
conscious people have set themselves realistic goal, an objective measure of their own, and will ask others to help evaluate. so people can continue to enhance their self-confidence, and confidence to avoid the development of pride.

happiness is more important than the scientific proof of success: a good mood most can play potential; happy to increase efficiency, creativity and the probability of correct decisions; happy people have an open mind, willing to help others. but not so much happy to bring success, not as good as that is to bring happiness and success achieved. I suggested that students pursue their own ideals and interests, in fact, do their own ideal, are interested in things is a joy. Therefore, success is more than happy should be our ultimate goal.
happy first step: accept your parents, the environment, their total
unhappy people helpless to do some sulk, do not like their parents and teachers do not want to read boring books, do not want to deal with them. For these helpless, and I hope students can learn to accept them calmly.
at all , do not accept me, I do not understand the idea, I use the general requirements of their values and ideas to work, study, study. so I always avoid them, more and more lonely. the following two aspects:
First, you should accept your parents, do not because parents do not understand you feel the self-enclosed. parents grow in different environments, different ways of thinking, their definition of success may also be different, your expectations and your own expectations have a greater difference. but their way of life You went fairly long, rich experience than you, you can not prejudiced to exclude them. In addition, you must understand that parents are the world's most love you, they are the only people who pay for you unconditionally, you should unconditionally accept your parents. for their children's often over-idealize their parents, and neglect the vast majority of parents in their growth environment, we are more scarce than, less than, they may not have the opportunity to learn how to be a good parents, but their conditions are best. If we despise, reject their parents, we would be disrespectful of their source of life, then how can we happy?
Second, you can try to change to parents, but you should first ask that you understand and accept your parents? you can understand parents thinking? parents always complain about when you hope you are perfect, do not you also in the hope that parents perfect? Ling Zhijun suggested that: you, you should go to understand them, so as to communicate with them more successfully. mutual understanding, perhaps you still have different views but can mutual understanding, perhaps you or they will alter the view to achieve consensus. To this end, You should first and parent ...